Rufus Humphrey
Rufus Humphrey is a fictional character from the American television series Gossip Girl, which is based on the book series of the same name written by Cecily von Ziegesar. The character is portrayed by Matthew Settle, and is a significant figure within the series due to his complex relationships and evolving role as a father and partner.
Character Overview
Rufus Humphrey is the father of Dan Humphrey and Jenny Humphrey. Initially introduced as an aspiring rock musician, Rufus was a former rock star who decided to leave the world of music to become an art gallery owner. His character is deeply intertwined with themes of family, love, and personal growth throughout the series.
Rufus's family life is complicated; he is the ex-husband of Alison Humphrey, an artist from whom he is separated. Alison resides in Hudson, New York, where she pursues her art career. Later in the series, Rufus's romantic interests include Lily van der Woodsen, whom he eventually marries. Their relationship is central to the series, intertwining the fates of the Humphrey family with the affluent van der Woodsen family.
Role in Gossip Girl
Rufus Humphrey is first introduced in the pilot episode of Gossip Girl when he picks up his children, Dan and Jenny, from Grand Central Terminal after their visit to their mother. He is portrayed as a caring and involved father, determined to keep his family together despite the challenges they face.
Throughout the series, Rufus's past as a musician is frequently referenced and serves as a backdrop to his character's development. His music career is an element that ties him to other characters, including his ex-girlfriends such as Lisa Loeb, and his interactions with the fictional music group created for the series add depth to his artistic persona.
His relationship with Lily van der Woodsen is both a romantic and dramatic focal point in the series. Their history includes long-standing affection and unresolved issues, such as Lily's marriage dynamics and their blended family challenges, especially as they navigate the social complexities of their children's interactions, including those with Serena van der Woodsen.
Relationships
- Alison Humphrey: Rufus's first wife and the mother of his children. Their marriage ends due to differing life paths and personal pursuits.
- Lily van der Woodsen: Rufus's second wife, who comes from an affluent background. Their romantic relationship is marked by both passion and conflict.
- Lisa Loeb: A musician and occasional love interest for Rufus. Their shared passion for music is a connecting thread.
- Ivy Dickens: A character who becomes entangled with the Humphrey family dynamics, particularly through her interactions with Lily and Rufus.
Influence and Portrayal
Matthew Settle's portrayal of Rufus Humphrey brought depth to the character, making him a beloved figure in the Gossip Girl series. His evolution from a rock musician to a dedicated father and art gallery owner reflects his personal growth and adaptability. Rufus's character serves as a bridge between the contrasting worlds of the Upper East Side elite and the more humble lifestyle of the Humphrey family.